Why is it every month something bad happens to my family it never stops..?

I'm sorry that so many bad occurrences have happened in your life. It's really tough to get through those bad times. Sometimes you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. But I think nearly everyone has a bad season in their life. I know for me it happened several years ago. My mother was dying of colon cancer, when my son and I went to spend her last days with her my wife left me while we were gone (it was over Christmas). Distraught over the bad things in my life, I wasn't the best employee in the world and I lost my job soon afterwards. I had met a wonderful woman and was engaged to her but I allowed all the bad things to effect me more than it should have and I broke the engagement, something that haunted me for years afterwards. There's more, but you get my drift. I was a Christian but had pretty much given up on having my prayers answered. Then something happened, I prayed sincerely to my God to help me to learn what I needed to learn, then I put all my faith in Christ to be there, no matter what, to help me with my troubles. I started going to a church that had an awesome singles ministry. I had the same questions you do. Over time my questions were answered to my satisfaction. Church, Christian friends, and prayer helped me more than I can say. Now I'm a very successful professional, am remarried to a woman that I know that God led me to, the love of my life. I'm trying not to preach, but just to tell you that things can get better. My answer includes my advice to seek out a church with people that you feel like you can connect with and ask the tough questions, allow a church family to help you.